Ring in the new year.

As another year ends and we are on the cusp of a new year...2009. A year full of possibilities and expectations. I ponder, what is to come? Will this be the year? Should I even hope?
I am a bit depressed, depressed might be a bit extreme, but let's face it. I am tired of being a totally awesome, great looking, fun loving, mature woman who also is hopelessly single. I know your saying now wait if all that is so true then how is that possible, beats the hell out of me too.
In the past week I have had more then my share of strangers, who after meeting me and talking to me find it "hard to believe" I'm still single. I also know that complete strangers shouldn't hold much weight, but I also get the same from people that know me (not those that are family or close to it, you know the ones that have to say that sort of thing) you know friends and co-workers. When it comes from them it's almost like turning the knife.
Now don't get me wrong I know if I did "have someone" a lot of things would change, I WANT CHANGE.
The best (or worst) is the eharmony promo stuff. Apparently when you get a match during the holidays the send you stuff like. Come out of the cold with...., don't spend the holidays alone spend it with..., try something new in 2009... OMG, really.
I say all this to say, here to 2009 a year of possibilities.